I am pretty sure we don't fit the usual suburban world here in North Carolina but I don't think that is such a bad thing. We wouldn't have chosen the suburbs of Charlotte, NC if we had of had more time but the need for a home was imminent. The rental home in which we were intending on moving into turned out to not be the best area for raising children and school was already in session for our then elementary aged, son. We needed to find a home and find one quickly. I remember going out to meet with a real estate agent to look at homes. We were desperate. The home we chose was the only one which would be available quick enough and in our price range. I had not heard of HOA (home owners associations) before and was quick to find out about them after moving into the community.
Our desire at first was to plant just a few plants on the barren clay soil. I began with river reeds and honeysuckle because they were free. Over the next few years we added fruit trees, grape vines and raised beds. We eventually started reading about some people in the Northwest (where I was living prior to here) who had started an urban style homestead. With the need to save cash and my love of gardening, we began our own burbstead. (Suburban Homestead)
I am in no way a country type girl at heart. I love living in the heart of a city but nonetheless we are the rebel farmers amidst our HOA driven community. So far we haven't dealt with any problems with our unique situation. We have flown under the radar, probably due to nice neighbors and the fact that we try to live as artfully and clean as possible in doing what we do.
We have a huge compost pile for decomposing kitchen and yard scraps, along with our hens' unmentionables. Its surrounded by lovely looking and smelling, honeysuckle to take away any unpleasing scents. I also stop by Starbucks bi-weekly to pick up a huge bag of espresso grounds both for its added goodness to the compost pile and for the removal of any bad smells.
We have a very cute hen house that is surrounded by honeysuckle climbing up chicken wire fencing and a little white shed shaped like a barn.
I change the chickens' bedding daily and add it to the compost. To keep their home fresh and the air from becoming smelly.
We also incorporated flowers and herbs in with our vegetable gardens to make them look prettier. The nice thing is that most of the flowers we have chosen are edible. As mentioned in an earlier post I finally have 2 lovely tea plants which arrived this week and were immediately planted up by our grapevines and blackberries at the back of our yard.
So far we haven't bumped heads with our neighbors or the HOA and we hope to keep it that way but we definitely are not conformists and we stick out a bit with our very full yard next to our neighbors whose plants are minimal.
One thing I have noticed since moving here is the value of conformity but I am not from here and hope to shine a light that shows it is okay to be different if you can do so in a way that adds to the community's beauty and appeal.
Being different can be a beautiful thing!!
As I told a
blogging friend yesterday on facebook, I sometimes feel like her pink rose amidst a sea of red ones.
That's just fine! Isn't it?
xoxo
Love,
~dee :)